Despite New Zealand’s ratification of similar international obligations to the other ‘Group of 5’ states, the prevalence of broad strategies with little specificity in relation to policy or supporting funds suggests governmental reticence to concretely recognise refugee rights. This article does not attempt to examine settlement policy compliance with every right enjoyed by refugees under international law. Instead, as our title suggests, it demonstrates that New Zealand refugee policy is aspirational yet extremely precarious. The first section indicates how a refugee’s pathway to protection via the UN quota system or as Convention refugees, significantly affects both family reunification and refugee resettlement support. The second section provides evidence that economic, social and cultural rights (ESCR) are insufficiently embedded in New Zealand’s legal framework to ensure coherent implementation leading to inconsistent and discriminatory policy compliance and dependence on NGOs and volunteers. This circumstance makes it difficult to contend that New Zealand actually meets its international obligations in a consistent and sufficient manner, despite the aspirations articulated by the recently developed Refugee Resettlement Strategy and other policies.